If you’re a dog parent, you’ve probably noticed that oddly intense stare your pup gives you while doing their business.
It’s a moment most of us laugh off — “What? Can I help you?” — but it turns out, your dog may be sending you a message rooted deep in instinct and trust.
And yes, it might just break your heart a little.
According to experts from VCA Animal Hospitals, this odd behavior could be proof of the powerful bond you share with your furry best friend. While you’re trying not to make eye contact, your dog is actually turning to you for something very real: protection.
See, when a dog squats to go to the bathroom, they enter a highly vulnerable position — and they know it. Their wild ancestors, like wolves or feral dogs, were at risk of being attacked while relieving themselves. So what did they do? They looked to their pack for backup. Today, your pup’s “pack” is you.
That stare? It’s not just awkward. It’s a plea that says, “Please watch my back while I’m doing this.”
But there might be more to it than just ancient survival skills.
Dogs could also be reading your body language during these moments. Or, if you used treats during potty training, your pup might just be hoping there’s a reward on the way for doing the deed correctly. Old habits die hard — especially the tasty ones.
And while we’re on the topic of canine quirks, science keeps confirming what dog lovers already know: our pups love when we talk to them like babies.
Back in 2023, researchers using MRI scans discovered that dogs’ brains light up in response to what’s called “infant-directed speech.” That singsongy voice you use when saying, “Who’s a good boy?” is actually music to your dog’s ears.
Dr. Krista Williams from Bay Cities VCA Animal Hospital explained to Kinship:
“When it comes to communicating with our dogs, it’s more about how things are said, versus the words we actually say. Dogs often interpret a singsong tone as an invitation to play and may respond by wagging their tail or doing a play bow.”
Her colleague, Dr. Bethany Hsia, added:
“Baby talk can capture a dog’s attention because it mimics the sounds associated with positive social interactions, signalling affection and engagement. The main benefit is that when we speak to our dogs, it helps build our bond with them and improves our ability to communicate with each other.”
So yes — keep talking to your dog like they’re the cutest baby on earth. And the next time they stare deep into your soul mid-poop? Just know they’re not being weird. They’re being loyal, instinctive, and asking for a little security from their favorite human in the world.
And if that’s not true love, what is?
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